Tuesday, November 23, 2010

I promise I won't get on a soapbox....

Throughout the year, I am continually reminded of the needs of the less fortunate. While I respect the large organizations and those who support them; it is important to remember that there are many organizations and causes in your community that get overlooked and ALL contributions help in some way. Your TIME is one of the most valuable things you can give.

Here are just a few of my favorite charities:

 40 Girls & Some Shoes

 Blankets of Love 

Habitat for Humanity
 http://www.habitat.org/  



This Holiday season; let’s go out in our communities and give back…you’ll be glad you did!

Monday, November 22, 2010

The Toddler Laws of Property

I saw this on a kid's t-shirt and HAD to buy it:

Toddler Laws of Property
  1. If I like it... it’s mine.
  2. If it’s in my hand... it’s mine.
  3. If I had it a little while ago... it’s mine.
  4. If it looks just like mine... it’s mine.
  5. If I think it’s mine... it’s mine.



Interestingly enough...this can also be applied to [some] females. No shade though.



Sunday, October 10, 2010

LOVE = LOSS ?



How far can you afford to bend to preserve your relationship? Most relationships require us to bend to a certain extent, but how much can we bend without a loss of self? How far can you go in giving up yourself to avoid losing your partner? How much of yourself can you afford to sacrifice to avoid losing someone you love? 

A truly loving relationship is a relationship where each person accepts and even values the differences between them. If you have to excessively bend your values to preserve the relationship, what are you preserving? You are not preserving a loving relationship since love does not demand that you constantly bend your values. When both partners are open to learning about their differences, those differences become fertile ground for the process of personal and spiritual growth. 

Problems occur when one or both partners are not available for exploration and learning. If one partner says, “Just accept me the way I am,” or gets angry or withdrawn when the other partner attempts to discuss the situation... learning is impossible. Then the other partner either has to acquiesce or leave…not a healthy situation. On the emotional AND spiritual level, you can afford to lose your partner but you cannot afford to lose yourself.


But I digress....

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Law 34

From the 48 Laws of Power
Law 34.
 

Be Royal in your Own Fashion:  Act like a King to be treated like one
The way you carry yourself will often determine how you are treated; In the long run, appearing vulgar or common will make people disrespect you.  For a king respects himself and inspires the same sentiment in others.  By acting regally and confident of your powers, you make yourself seem destined to wear a crown.

Friday, March 19, 2010

Thought for the day...

There is no such thing as "BASTARDS" & "BITCHES" While you may have experience with "A" bastard or "A" bitch; it is vital to remind yourself that just like you are an exception to someone's rule...SOMEONE will be an exception to yours. 

All men are not dogs, nor are all women bitches. The adage "don't throw the baby out with the bath water" applies here. 

That's all I have for now....

Thursday, February 25, 2010

In Honor of Black History Month

I would like to share something I found in my inbox...

 Subject: Fw: "LIFE WITHOUT BLACK PEOPLE"


 A very humorous and revealing story is told about a group of white people who were fed up with African Americans, so they joined together and wished themselves away.



They passed through a deep dark tunnel and emerged in sort of a twilight zone where there is an America without black people.


At first these white people breathed a sigh of relief. At last, they said No more crime, drugs, violence and welfare. All of the blacks have gone! Then suddenly, reality set in. The "NEW AMERICA" is not America at all-only a barren land.

1. There are very few crops that have flourished because the nation was built on a slave-supported system.


2. There are no cities with tall skyscrapers because Alexander Mils, a black man, invented the elevator, and without it, one finds great difficulty reaching higher floors.


3. There are few if any cars because Richard Spikes, a black man, invented the automatic gearshift, Joseph Gambol, also black, invented the Super Charge System for Internal Combustion Engines, and Garrett A. Morgan, a black man, invented the traffic signals.


4. Furthermore, one could not use the rapid transit system because its procurer was the electric trolley, which was invented by another black man, Albert R. Robinson.


5. Even if there were streets on which cars and a rapid transit system could operate, they were cluttered with paper because an African American, Charles Brooks, invented the street sweeper.



6. There were few if any newspapers, magazines and books because John Love invented the pencil sharpener, William Purveys invented the fountain pen, and Lee Barrage invented the Type Writing Machine W. A. Love invented the Advanced Printing Press. They were all, you guessed it, Black.



7. Even if Americans could write their letters, articles and books, they would not have been transported by mail because William Barry invented the Postmarking and Canceling Machine, William Purveys invented the Hand Stamp and Philip Downing invented the Letter Drop.



8. The lawns were brown and wilted because Joseph Smith invented the Lawn Sprinkler and John Burr the Lawn Mower.



9. When they entered their homes, they found them to be poorly ventilated and poorly heated. You see, Frederick Jones invented the Air Conditioner and Alice Parker the Heating Furnace.



Their homes were also dim. But of course, Lewis Lattimer later invented the Electric Lamp, Michael Harvey invented the lantern and Granville T. Woods invented the Automatic Cut off Switch.


Their homes were also filthy because Thomas W. Steward invented the Mop and Lloyd P. Ray the Dust Pan.



10. Their children met them at the door-barefoot ed, shabby, motley and unkempt. But what could one expect?


Jan E. Matzelinger invented the Shoe Lasting Machine, Walter Sammons invented the Comb, Sarah Boone invented the Ironing Board and George T. Samon invented the Clothes Dryer.



11. Finally, they were resigned to at least have dinner amidst all of this turmoil. But here again, the food had spoiled because another Black Man, John Standard invented the refrigerator.


Now, isn't that something? What would this country be like without the contributions of Blacks, as African-Americans? Martin Luther King, Jr. said, "by the time we leave for work, Americans have depended on the inventions from the minds of Blacks." Black history includes more than just slavery, Frederick Douglass, Martin Luther King, Jr., Malcolm X, and Marcus Garvey & W.E.B. Dubois.


PLEASE SHARE, ABUNDANTLY 

Pretty cool, huh?

Thursday, February 18, 2010

I hate this word...


but these boys make me say it....SWAG!